How to build lasting relationships

 

Intro

1.       Relationship is not problem but commitment

2.       focus your partner after marriage

3.       What is conflict

4.       Understand your partner

5.       Trust and respect

6.       What is most important to your partner  

7.       Small thing matter

 

 

a  harvard  found that a having a good relationship will help stay health and happy and long life

Relationship is not problem but commitment

 

Everyone is looking for partner in sometime of  their life No one have problem with relationship, but they problem in commitment ,example I will stay with my partner at every condition here problem come

 

No one sure where it good for me or not

Give yourself time before you commitment on anything it so important give yourself time don’t do commitment too

 

What if you get marry with someone who is from complete different background in nationality as well religion,

If you are mentally ready for all challenge you are going to face you  have to go through pain if you are mentally ready then go for it and don’t keep high hope everything will go well maybe it don’t go well you have to be prepare

 

Focus on your partner after marriage  

 

Most people don’t focus their partner after they get marry because they think my partner can’t go anywhere because we are already marriage,

With your partner have to spend whole life with you, after marriage mostly partner shift their focus to other part of life like making more money 

 

Conflict

 

Conflict is a disagreement

If there no conflict in relationship then it toxic relationship I mean healthy conflict  

A conflict can be avoid in future by discussing and answering

 

If someone avoids conflict or do conflict for pleasure then relationship is going in bad direction

99% conflict happen because of small thing conflict over food you don’t how to cook it better why you don’t polish my shoes or very small thing that are so useless to conflict for these stuff, sometimes couple conflict over other people issue and sometime over stranger so small matter but they make it so big to conflict for it

Normally conflict happen on small thing then it must need to solve in small don’t make it so big

Don’t conflict on small thing the most important thing don’t conflict for small thing that doesn’t matter it can destroy your relationship Small thing don’t matter sometime we conflict for small thing

 

Conflict for big sometimes good if something too important like career then conflict is good but it must need to solve too soon

 

Understand your partner

Most important thing to understand what your partner like and what don’t like what make your partner angry and try to avoid all thing to make our partner angry and

Understand what your partner like do that thing your partner like it you should focus more to understand your partner

 

Trust and respect

Respect your partner and trust on each other

 

What most important to your partner

Maybe example here it different for every person

1.       Good looking

2.       respect

3.       health

4.       emotional intelligence

5.       caring

Maybe these 5 thing is most important to your partner do these good at any cost

 

Small things matter

Some people thing small thing don’t matter but it matter example putting your hand on your partner shoulder while watching TV it just example 

 

Conclusion

Relationship  can make you health and beautiful but both partner need to understand each other according to Harvard research a person who have good relationship will good life and health and happy 

 

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How to build lasting relationships

 

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